The luckiest day for a woman as what many mothers said is to know that they are bearing a child inside their womb. But how true is this if your age is just ranging from 13-19 or what we call the teenage years of our life?I planned to write this topic and share it all to you because me too became a teenage mom.
During my childhood days, I can't say that I became so much happy, but, I can't also say that I am sad....maybe a neutral feeling. My dad sent me to private schools since my kindergarten, then he transferred me to another private school during my elementary and high school days. My life that time is still neutral,not too much happiness and not too much loneliness.
During my 3rd year in high school then I met my "prince charming" who is also my husband. My life became so special as he treated me so precious with full of respect and love. That time, I felt all the love that I haven't feel since I was a child. Yes, my father loves me but what others didn't know is that I'm longing for the love of a mother...Unfortunately,I really didn't know and met my mother since birth.That's why I don't know the feeling that almost everybody says that the love of a mother is the best love of all. To get back again to my story....then as years passed,a month before my 18th birthday,my family found out about my pregnancy.All was dismayed.At that time I have a feeling of both happiness and worriness.Happy because I will live together with my husband and worried because I don't know what will happen next.
Our wedding day came....I gave birth to my son...and my life came back to normal again.My family accepted my son and my husband... and as if nothing happens.
I continue studying at college with the help of my family and my in-laws.I graduated year 2008 and after a year my son started schooling too.
Life is really hard that time.Not all girls can find a good husband and not all teenage moms can have a good life after struggling with this kind of problem but if you will just pray regarding the situation,HE will surely guide you in your way.Don't think of your situation as tragic....it's blessing,just accept the consequence and everything will be all well.
I am not telling you that it is okay to be a young mom,what I am trying to say is BE RESPONSIBLE!If you're in that situation do your responsibility. Do what you have suppose to do.
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Teens,If you want to live a good life try to finish your studies and reach for your goals first and after that you'll surely love your life most.
Bye everyone!
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